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I still believe in love (no, not that kind)

7/9/2016

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       It's been a hellish week -- personally, nationally, and globally. The terrorist attacks in Iraq, Saudi Arabia, and elsewhere. Violence of all kinds in the United States, but especially the police-involved shootings of Alton Sterling and Philando Castile, and the murder of police officers in Dallas. These alone would be enough to send me into a fetal crouch in the corner of my house. Add to that the week of worry and caregiving for my husband, who is home now but not well, and facing surgery. Yesterday I came to the sobering realization that, with both children diagnosed with chronic illnesses, I am the only healthy person in my immediate family. So self-care and monitoring my own health becomes essential. I wish I had the energy and focus to respond to the world outside my house, but frankly, I don't.
       So there's this blog, where I can put my swirling thoughts and jumbled emotions into words about "everything else". And the word for the day is love. I believe in the power of love to connect and heal. If love is a miracle, I believe in miracles. Otherwise, I don't. And sometimes love can feel like a miracle, when it comes out of nowhere -- from a stranger on the bus, or a Samaritan coming down the road. But love for others is as much a miracle as Dorothy's ruby slippers; it's the unused power we already have. (I wonder what the Wicked Witch of the East used them for? But I digress.) Love can overcome hate, but not passively; it needs to be made visible, transformed into action. 




​I need you; you need me. Let's act like it.
If my focus on Indian films seems escapist, you're right. But it's the best kind of escapism -- the kind that heals and help me keep going.
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Ashley
7/9/2016 07:36:17 am

Hi, Jo. Thanks for sharing this. I'm sorry to hear things are so rough for you and your family at the moment, in addition to the crazy ish going on in the world. You are in my prayers, FWIW.

Just wanted to say that I'm SO glad you enjoy Bollywood movies so openly, and with both heart and head. Watching Bollywood, and being a "fan" again, of SRK, bring joy and comfort to my life too. It is extra nice to have folks like you to enjoy them with.

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Jo
7/9/2016 11:46:06 am

There is also something lovely about being a part of the huge, global lovefest that is SRK fandom. So diverse, so beautiful.

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